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Be a girl with a mind, a woman with attitude,

and a lady with class.

Meet Vicki

President & Founder of Help Me Help Her


Defining moments are moments in time you never forget. September 11th, 2001 was a huge wake up call for me but not just me our entire country.  9/11 was the beginning of my personal safety journey and one that would take me down a path I never saw coming.

Fast forward to October 2007, another day I will never forget. Two men tried to kidnap my 10 year old daughter right out of my own front yard. We were incredibly lucky because she was able to get away. Next was April 2008. I received a 2 am phone call that a mother NEVER wants to receive. My oldest son (27 at the time) was the victim of a horrific and violent home invasion.


The stark reality of almost losing two of my children to evil people propelled me into action. I opened The Women's Shooting Academy and began educating and empowering women locally and nationwide. Over the next 10 years, my business was very successful and I was blessed to train thousands of women.


April of 2017 I was home alone when I experienced my own home invasion and had to implement everything I had been teaching all those years. In May of 2017, I taught my last class and walked away truly thinking I was done. Walking away was a huge decision but one that I had to take for a variety of reasons. I will share why later in a video, it is an incredibly powerful testimony.

When I am not teaching personal safety I LOVE to do art. I also dabble in graphic design and helping others with their marketing needs. Here are links to my other sites.

Today I am back and stronger than ever. I have big dreams and visions for Help Me Help Her. I am excited for YOU, you are not on this website by accident.

We are always better together.

In Gratitude,



"One woman can make a difference, many women can start a movement. Ladies, let's start a movement"-vk

Invite Vicki to speak at your next event

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I joined Toastmasters many years ago on a dare, little did I know that I would fall in love with public speaking. I am rarely at a loss for words, and can strike up a conversation anywhere with anyone.

Whether I am speaking about all things safety, the 2nd Amendment, my walk with the Lord etc, you can count on be bringing my "A" game and leaving an impact on my audience.

Contact me, I'd love to be considered for your next event.


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